Sexualization
First of all, I hate it when people say that letting kids watch Drag Shows or teaching them about sexuality is 'sexualizing' them. I hate it, because
that's not what 'sexualization' means for the most part. Or at all - outside of that nonsense discussion. By sexualization we generally imply that a
a person is reduced to their sexual merits for an audience. But well ...
I mean, if we however are to imply sexualization to be: To fill an individuals mind with sexual matters - sure. There eventually is a 'too much'. Like
... clockwork orange snuff porn 24/7 ... I would think might mess someone up. Although ... also only 'relatively speaking'. Outside of whatever damage
"clockwork oranging" ANYTHING 24/7 might do. The thing is, that such a thing were a form of conditioning. Then, when grown up, that individual is to
interact with society. If however instead of a normal upbringing, the person had been, I don't know, brainwashed by some religious cult, that person is
going to have a dysfunctional relationship with the world around it; Respective to what matters in the detail. Say, tools to adjust with society versus
safeguards against doing so. So, of course a person who grew up thinking that murder is cool actually ... isn't gonna really ... how to put it? "Not
be messed up" in a society wherein murder is universally condemned.
Therefore then it is important to ... well ... organically grow into a society as is. That way a person has the best chance to develop the tools they
need to fit in and be themselves. Respective to ... what societies standard on those things is. So yes: Go figure!
Sexualization, as in objectification, eventually comes to be a part of that - and ... even I feel/experience it as a negative.
So yea, there is a time and a place for everything ... means: Sometimes certain things are out of place. Some things more than others.
And especially then, when effectively: Hordes of people ... mean to ... in all actuality: violently "suggest" to you where your place ought to be,
or what your life so and so ... well ... sure, there is a certain relativity to that also ... like, there are prisons for such reasons. But so there's
also a too much ... and maybe also a too little.
And such are the problems that we face today. But the thing is, that if you're a woman and that alone is to suggest that - with perhaps the exception
of church - you're good game and you ought to take whatever or else you're a frigid killjoy or lack "sense of humor" - that's not a place in which one
can ... easily breathe and enjoy their lives in.
And that's that.
Obviously the problem seems to be, that some people have an interpretation of these truths that others don't like. Technically that shouldn't be
a problem. Technically there are things such as 'facts' that should help us resolve these issues amongst ourselves.